Perhaps a "discovery" theme, then?

... or play on similar words, "cover" "uncover" "discover" "recover"

Think with me, people.

By the way, Lelia is working almost constantly just now, so hasn't been joining the conversation. She will when she can, however.

Last night I asked Rich about how he did my party, and he started telling me about the decorations and the various elements. He wanted to make it really nice for me, he pre-ordered the flowers and brought them, complete with candles and matches, to Marcello's the day of the 55th birthday party. (Which was about $30/head plus wine by the glass, tips, invitations, postage, and decor.)

For my 50th birthday, it was different, with the music and location, caterer, etc.
Different expenses.

So far he doesn't know we have the place, one of us should let him know so it's not hanging heavy over his head.